There is a certain kind of joy that radiates out of knowing that someone chooses to love you.
As a Catholic, you are always told, " you are special because you are made in the imagine and likeness of God", "God has chosen you, he loves you", all these positive things somehow are taken for granted. Like even your parents and siblings love for you, because they are supposed to love you. But when a stranger loves you, opens up their life to you, well that's what we give importance to.
Then the question is asked, "what is so great in me that someone chooses to loves me?"
We forget the positivity that love brings and go into the spiral of trying to understand 'why'. Well sometimes the answer is favourable, sometimes it not, but for what its worth, it makes you feel like a million dollars!
I have experienced lots of types of love, right from the love of a parent to siblings, to selfish relatives to selfless relatives, to wonderful friends, to something they call platonic love, to one sided love, to passionate love and to simple love.
The best kind of love is loving someone for who they are, not for something that they can be, or were or the person they can tweak, till they are perfect for us.
I am in search for a love which I know will start as a compromise, but waiting for it to turn into the love which will resonate the vows I will take ~ to love him for the good times and bad, sickness and health, richer or poorer, till death do us apart.
Well writing this blog to mark, me taking the next step into life, going beyond hope, going beyond ~ I will move on after you are settled, when its sure that there is no hope left.
Wishing myself luck for life will never be the same.
Started the year on a platter of mixed emotions, well ending it on the same note. Good luck to me, waiting to discover what the future has in store for me.
As a Catholic, you are always told, " you are special because you are made in the imagine and likeness of God", "God has chosen you, he loves you", all these positive things somehow are taken for granted. Like even your parents and siblings love for you, because they are supposed to love you. But when a stranger loves you, opens up their life to you, well that's what we give importance to.
Then the question is asked, "what is so great in me that someone chooses to loves me?"
We forget the positivity that love brings and go into the spiral of trying to understand 'why'. Well sometimes the answer is favourable, sometimes it not, but for what its worth, it makes you feel like a million dollars!
I have experienced lots of types of love, right from the love of a parent to siblings, to selfish relatives to selfless relatives, to wonderful friends, to something they call platonic love, to one sided love, to passionate love and to simple love.
The best kind of love is loving someone for who they are, not for something that they can be, or were or the person they can tweak, till they are perfect for us.
I am in search for a love which I know will start as a compromise, but waiting for it to turn into the love which will resonate the vows I will take ~ to love him for the good times and bad, sickness and health, richer or poorer, till death do us apart.
Well writing this blog to mark, me taking the next step into life, going beyond hope, going beyond ~ I will move on after you are settled, when its sure that there is no hope left.
Wishing myself luck for life will never be the same.
Started the year on a platter of mixed emotions, well ending it on the same note. Good luck to me, waiting to discover what the future has in store for me.
1 comment:
all the best for the new phase of life... but just remember do not start with a compromise.... it does not become better.... it only worsens !!!! :)
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